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If you died, how would you feel about your husband hooking up with your sister?

She would be your childs aunt. My SIL and I were discussing this and I said Heck no! Too weird! She said she wouldn't mind because atleast the Aunt would know her kids and be nice to them because she knows them already! I've heard that in some cultures if a woman passes away, and has a single sister, they usually take over the mother/wife role.
What do you think?

 
mamaada

Asked by mamaada at 1:57 PM on Nov. 5, 2009 in Just for Fun

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Answers (22)
  • I would want my sisters to take on a mother-figure role with my children and help my husband out with them as he needed. However, I would definatley be against one of them becoming involved with my sister. I don't agree with someone marrying a family member even if they aren't blood related. For example: If twins married another set of twins, I think that's wrong. Though the brother-in-law may not be blood related, I still feel that related by marriage is just as if you were blood. I would hope my husband, if he were to move on after I die, would choose someone that isn't in the family (or hasn't been in the family) already.
    JazzlikeMraz

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 3:04 PM on Nov. 5, 2009

  • I think it would never happen.

    If by some twist of universal intelligence it did....I would hope he truly loved her and it wasnt just about a replacement for me(cuz my sis and I look a bit alike) and that she truly took care of my kids.
    Amaranth361

    Answer by Amaranth361 at 1:58 PM on Nov. 5, 2009

  • i don't have to worry there my boyfriend isn't one bit attracted to my sister. if it happened i know she would be great to my kids, cause she gets my kids for several weeks during the summer anyway and she treats them better then her own kids. i wouldn't care as long as they was both happy and my kids was happy also. i think he should be happy even though i'm gone cause i'm going to be in heaven happy.
    okc-mom-2

    Answer by okc-mom-2 at 2:05 PM on Nov. 5, 2009

  • Hmm at first i was like heck no when i read it but.. my sister loves me kids close to as much as i do. I'd rather my sister be my kids step mom then someone else. She's actually the only one I would want around my kids.
    Mrs.Oriaku

    Answer by Mrs.Oriaku at 2:08 PM on Nov. 5, 2009

  • I think I wouldn't care... I would be dead.
    Nathskitten

    Answer by Nathskitten at 2:13 PM on Nov. 5, 2009

  • i wpuld be pissed! i would haunt them!!!
    cassie_m

    Answer by cassie_m at 2:13 PM on Nov. 5, 2009

  • *laughs* Oh boy I cannot even imagine that.
    mamakirs

    Answer by mamakirs at 2:16 PM on Nov. 5, 2009

  • Kinda freaked, actually, because my sister has severe cerebral palsy and is in a wheelchair. She is mostly deaf and uses sign language; I understand her, of course, but my husband doesn't get most of what she says. He doesn't see her very often, and she says our twins make her nervous. I can't really blame her; they run around her wheelchair and probably make her feel like they are going to tip it over. So I can't really see it.
    SaraCVT

    Answer by SaraCVT at 2:23 PM on Nov. 5, 2009

  • Yeah, neither my husband nor my sister would go for that. HA H AHA HA HA HA just picturing that in my head is cracking me up!!
    Pnukey

    Answer by Pnukey at 2:24 PM on Nov. 5, 2009

  • I know he wouldn't because he is 100% repulsed by my sister (I only say 100% because there really isn't a higher percent)
    Domzmom2005

    Answer by Domzmom2005 at 2:27 PM on Nov. 5, 2009