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Does he really love me?

My fiance told me in a drunken moment he is only marrying me because he doesn't want me to beable to take our son away from him... the only time I left before with our son is when he got violent... I know it may sound like a stupid question but he has been great lately... I do love him but I would like a 2nd opinion... he says he loves me but do you think once a man is violent he will always be violen (like a cheater) or do you think they can have a change of heart?

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Asked by Anonymous at 5:57 PM on Nov. 5, 2009 in Babies (0-12 months)

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  • once violent always violent if he hit you once he can do it again may not be for a year or two but once he gets to that level of anger he will hit you again theres no doubt sorry

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:04 PM on Nov. 5, 2009

  • He will most definitely do it again. Don't trust him, and get out while you can.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:10 PM on Nov. 5, 2009

  • Leave now. It's only harder to leave later when you're married, and when he has you too scared to think for yourself or have forgotten how to.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:30 PM on Nov. 5, 2009

  • Leave!!! Comming from an abusive childhood, I can tell you that it will happen again. You also should not subject your child to that. I know thats a bit blunt, but it;s what you need to hear. Love should never hurt!

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:53 PM on Nov. 5, 2009

  • Leave. While you're still living to tell the tale.

    Answer by gdiamante at 1:17 AM on Nov. 6, 2009

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