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Does being chunky make you a real woman? Especially if you are a mom?

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:17 AM on Nov. 6, 2009 in Just for Fun

Answers (34)
  • you must be a skinny bitch! lol

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:21 AM on Nov. 6, 2009

  • Um NO. It makes you chunky, and probably unhealthy.

    Answer by Blueliner at 2:21 AM on Nov. 6, 2009

  • I'm just wondering...seems like the consensus here.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:22 AM on Nov. 6, 2009

  • My husband says moms should be squishy....his mom has always been big :(

    Answer by prettyrayray at 2:27 AM on Nov. 6, 2009

  • LOL
    my hubby doesnt like
    and i dont like chunky on myself either
    i do my best to stay in shape...kinda let go this pregnancy tho...gained 28 lbs...LOL but im due in a few days and hopefully I can shed my winter fat...LOL

    Answer by DomoniqueWS at 2:30 AM on Nov. 6, 2009

  • I think moms should be healthy, strong, and rock hard! DH agrees :) Lucky me!

    Seriously though, if you can't play sports with your kids, run around with them, bike with them, swim with them, climb around on the playground with them, then you're missing out! :(

    Answer by Blueliner at 2:32 AM on Nov. 6, 2009

  • Sounds like you are looking for an excuse to be chunky. I think if you were born with ovaries you are a real woman. I don't see how someones appearance has anything to do with be womanly or not. I am thinner not as thin as I used to be. But I am not huge either and I am 100% sure I am a real woman I gave birth and everything.

    Answer by Crissy1213 at 2:34 AM on Nov. 6, 2009

  • I don't care if I'm chunky or not, I know I'm a real women and a good mother and wife, I gained weight with my baby but that don't make me feel more or less of a women.

    Answer by looovemybabies at 2:57 AM on Nov. 6, 2009

  • I have been a size 5 and I have been a 22 while pregnant and now I am somewhere in the middle and guess what, my size has never been what determined weather i was a "real woman" or not, last time I checked I was born with all the parts that is required for being a woman, i gave birth 3 times, I am a strong, independent, opinionated, hard working, tell you like it is Woman and I don't think it gets much more real than that.

    If you judge a woman soley by her size than you are shallow and have not yet grown up and come into your womanhood which would require maturity to understand that not everyone fits your perfect ideal mold. Me personally I broke the mold and never want to get stuck back in it.


    Answer by 3_ring_circus_ at 3:10 AM on Nov. 6, 2009

  • LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Chunky people scare me!!!!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:19 AM on Nov. 6, 2009

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