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Is it too late to go to counseling for something that happend a year ago?

I am now married, and have a beautiful daughter. I was drug rapped 3 months before I met My Husband. Is it too late to get help? I have dreams of him doing it to me, and I also eat at myself for it, and feel like It's My fault. How is it My Fault that someone soo stupid took advantage of me with a pail soo strong that it knocked me out? Hmmm dosn't sound like My Fault to me!


Asked by Anonymous at 2:41 AM on Nov. 6, 2009 in Health

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  • That is awful,I am so sorry that,that happened to you:(
    No. It is never to late to get thearpy for any reason. I was abused as a child and I need help knowing what is normal in my everyday dealings. I have been seeing my thearpist for going on three years-I love her and value her oppinion and advice like none elses.
    Go seek someone to talk with. You may have to get an initial visit w/several different thearpists. I had to do that in order to find someone w/whom I felt comfortable talking to. GL and I hope you find healing.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:33 AM on Nov. 6, 2009

  • I don't think it's too late. You should.

    Answer by Blueliner at 2:42 AM on Nov. 6, 2009

  • Your other question wasn't Anon though, you might want to delete it.

    Answer by Blueliner at 2:42 AM on Nov. 6, 2009

  • It's never too late. Often we use denial to deal with our trauma only to have it bite us later. Seek help.

    Answer by onethentwins at 2:46 AM on Nov. 6, 2009

  • If it's still on your mind then it's not too late

    Answer by looovemybabies at 2:47 AM on Nov. 6, 2009

  • i agree with the others it is never to late! if it is bothering you It helps to talk about it. good luck!

    Answer by crafty66 at 4:28 AM on Nov. 6, 2009

  • its never too late. If it is still affecting your life and you need help to overcome what happened it's never too late.

    Answer by pagirl71 at 9:10 AM on Nov. 6, 2009

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