okay so my hubbys side of the family does not like me for the most part
we spent thanksgiving at his cousins house and I was a bit uncomfortable because it was my first time meeting everyone and NO ONE tried to talk to me or get to know me. I felt like an outsider. :(
well their reason for not talking to me was because im quiet, and secretive, they even called me a BITCH. my thot is of course i was quiet no one even cared to talk to me, my hubby did his best but they didnt care
well this year we're going to do thanksgiving at my families house instead since that was very weird for me and hubby and we were going to go spend a day w/his side later, since baby will be a newborn as of next week hopefully.
I dont think i want to be in an awkward position again..in m family its totally different as far as hubby goes.
y wud some 1 not like me because i felt left out?
would you make an effort to go see them?
Answer by companygoddess at 4:39 PM on Nov. 6, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 5:01 PM on Nov. 6, 2009
Sounds like they don't know how to approach you. If you don't feel like you can approach them. Make sure you smile at as many people as you can. Try and be helpful. Offer to clean or refill stuff. If you do feel that you can approach someone. Ask them about them self, who doesn't like talking about themselves or job or kids.
Answer by DevilInPigtails at 6:02 PM on Nov. 6, 2009
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