the husband told me tonight that i am cocky . ive never thought of myself like that. example he says no matter what it is, you can find osmeting wrong and critique. but the thing is i think im anal...sure....cause i do critique everything, but its not i only do it to tohers...i do it to myself and i dont tell anyone wha ti think, only him. i mean i was cleaning earlier and i had a small spot of sauce left on the stove and i seen it and went ahh i didnt notice that and scrubbed it off...lil things like that i notice and take care of. i have to be organized, neat and prepared or else i get a little mixed up (i do have adhd) i never thought me noticing things with others was arrogant, you can find flaws with everything...EVERYTHING. . does this really make me arrogant? i think everything and everyone has room to improve and he says he loves my confidence, he thinks its a compliment..but caling me cocky hurts me.he doesnt get that
Asked by Anonymous at 5:23 PM on Nov. 6, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 5:34 PM on Nov. 6, 2009
Answer by Iskkra at 5:32 PM on Nov. 6, 2009
You sound like a perfections. My hubby is one as well. It can be hard to always have someone raining on your parade. My hubby is always pointing what or why I did something wrong or all the negative aspects of something. But he hardly mentions the positive or what I did correctly. It gets hold, but he has gotten better after 9 years of marriage. Try mentioning the positive as well, it wears on the soul to only her what was missed or done wrong.
Answer by DevilInPigtails at 5:57 PM on Nov. 6, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 6:04 PM on Nov. 6, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 6:07 PM on Nov. 6, 2009