so last thanksgiving was the first time I met hubbys whole family. well I didnt get the hospitality he said would be there. instead no one introduced themselves to me and they gave me rude looks. I took it uppon myself, while hubby ran to the store, to go around and meet EVERY1. They were wll very short with me and when hubby got back still didnt talk to me.
So i got to be really quiet because I felt like no one liked me and I didnt know why. Quietness is my defense mechanism I guess, any1 who knows me knows im only quiet when im very uncomfortable
we have seen them all again on occasion and still, they dont talk to me, i just play babysitter for their kids.
we'll be going to see them after thanksgiving this year
they said i was a bitch,snooty, too quiet, and secretive
how do i get them to like me?
how do i let my baby have a relationship with ppl who dont even like me?
I dont know, :(
I am quiet, especially around people I don't know. My DH's family said the same things about me. It bothered me at first, but those who got to know me realize how wrong they were. Give them time to get to know you. Those that take the time will be worth building a relationship with. You'll always have those that like to talk about you, I say at least they're giving someone else a break. :o)
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