I in general hate when someone CALLS ME to talk then when we are talking they tell me to hold on a minute so they can talk to someone else! My husband done that to me for the first time tonight and it made me so made. Part because I think when you call someone you should talk to them and not ask them to hold on a mintue so you can talk to someone else. They called YOU! whats the point of calling them if your not going to talk to them. Also the other part was because the person he was talking to was another driver from work is happens to be a girl. Now tell me if I'm wrong but its just plain rude to do what I have said in the first place, but when its your spouse and you tell them to wait a min. to talk to the other sex. Its just FUKed up! I got made and hung up. Was I in the wrong? or did I have every right to be upset?
Answer by Hali_Taylor at 4:38 AM on Nov. 7, 2009
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 11:48 PM on Nov. 6, 2009
Answer by canadianmom1974 at 11:59 PM on Nov. 6, 2009
I agree that is rude to do, but he was the one that started to convo with her. He had just called me too! arrgh... just so annoying. To me it feels like I was not as important to talk to as her at that moment. Or as interesting.
Oops, just realized what you meant, but it still holds true. I think it's just as rude of the other person to interrupt a phone call. I mean if I walk up to someone and need to talk to them, I'll wait until they finish their call, unless of course it is urgent.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 12:04 AM on Nov. 7, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 12:06 AM on Nov. 7, 2009
ok, let me clarify. I was on the phone with him I could hear everything. He was outside getting ready to go on a run, she was coming back from one. Yes, they where on the clock... but at that time they weren't technically working and they weren't talking about work! Second the only time he talks in his flirty was is if he finds someone attractive. Its find that he does, but I do not want to know about it or hear it. He I know for a fact would not like it if i flirted in front of him, or he heard me flirting.
No, I wouldn't have been mad considering what was going on at the time. My Dh calls me from work sometimes and he's a manager so there is no "break" time for him. So a lot of the time he calls me, an employee will talk to him. Its not his fault and I understand that his job takes priority.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 12:10 AM on Nov. 7, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 12:14 AM on Nov. 7, 2009
Oh and I like to add that there is a huge different between flirty and being nice.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 12:15 AM on Nov. 7, 2009
sure, i am patient when its important or if its really worked related. but if its just for fun its kinda like, what was your point of calling me! Also I am sure if you saw or heard your husband flirty you would get jealous, but you would probably keep it to yourself.
No. Just about everyone I talk to is a very busy person and it's really not unusual for them to have to talk to someone else while we are talking. It doesn't bother me. I am very patient. My husband and I talk often throughout the day and he's delivering mail while we talk. When he's talking to a customer I wait. It's okay. I really wouldn't and don't care if he's talking to a female. I have been his wife for 24 years, I don't get jealous
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 12:17 AM on Nov. 7, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 12:41 AM on Nov. 7, 2009