So I've only been married less than a year and to me things are horrible. All my husbands cares about is money, sex, and having a clean house. He constantly yells at me about how he goes to work and comes home to a messy house and doesn't get enough sex. The house isn't nearly as messy as he makes it seem to be. You would think that there are things EVERYWHERE where in actuality there isn't. We also live in a very old single wide trailer, which is very small and basically no storage whatsoever. He constantly tears me down about not cleaning to his standards when I do give an honest effort....it's just not good enough for him. Things have gotten so bad that I hate to be intimate with him. When I am I have to force myself and sometimes I think about other things just to get through it. It seems as if he cares more about those things mentioned than our love and relationship itself. Cont....
Asked by Anonymous at 1:37 PM on Nov. 7, 2009 in Relationships
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I'd let him come home to an empty house and let him see how it feels. Explain to him that you won't come home until you get counseling and he changes! My DH complained once about something not being clean enough for him, I told him if that's how he felt he could do it himself. I'm a SAHM and I clean because he works, but he understands that I'm a MOM not a MAID! And there are days that dishes don't get done, the floors don't get vacuumed! It's a part of life! Your man needs to learn this.
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