My 23yr. old brother has always lived with someone but he as never lived on his own in his own place with just himself. And he has never had a bill in his name. And when we talk to dad about it and with helping more inside the house and when dad doesn't want to hear about it it just makes it harder to give him a feel of what it's like when you have major bills to pay. And he was never like this when our mom was alive but now that she passed away and she's been going for 2 yrs. now. his completely different and things with him just seem to get harder and harder.
And dad knows about it but I know that he doesn't want to do that hardest thing that a parent(s) would have to do and that is letting him know that he can't keep picking him up every time he falls. And with the small stuff like if little brother runs out of cigs dad will buy him cigs. instead of saying. Hey I love you but I'm not buy your cigs for you anymore.help
Answer by Anonymous at 9:55 PM on Nov. 7, 2009
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