i am having my kids dedicated in a week we are having a get together after which was intended to be small so that we could pay for everyone as well my sons dad had been emotionally abusive in the past but we have been getting along somewhat lately mostlySo he told me none of his family was coming to our kids dedication and i was like okay and then i decided to have get together and then he starts inviting his family and his mom and one sister said they would come im like okay thats fine since then he is having his sisters 3 kids his other sister and his brother come this was supposed to be a small get together im not paying and neither is he i really dislike his brother and come to find out hes coming today is not making me happy because when i was pregnant his brother left threats on my phone to kill me and my son i dont want him there but i have no choice..i wanted it to be a special day but now might cancel the get togetherAnswer Question
Huh?? I can't even follow that without any punctuation. Sorry, I don't even know what the question is.
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Answer by jaelynsmama07 at 1:54 AM on Nov. 8, 2009
Sounds like it's way past time to put your foot down. Don't cancel but tell him that not everyone can come unless he ponies up some money. Plus his brother is not welcome to anything until he proves he can behave to your satisfaction. Also tell him if his brother shows up you will press trespassing charges on him. Then He throws a fit and threatens you tell him all invites are canceled and that it goes for anyone else who shows up. It's one thing to try to be Christ like it's another to be a door mat.
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