I have student loans upwards of $40,000, plus about $10,000 in credit card debt (I am NOT a shop-a-holic. I just pay for everything, and don't work.) plus a car loan. He says he won't marry me because I have this debt. Is this an actual reason to not get married?
I wouldn't say yes anyway. But I just wanted to see what you thought about his reason.
Answer by Anonymous at 10:31 AM on Nov. 8, 2009
Yes it is a reason not to get married no matter how much you love him or he loves you. It doesn't show financial responsibility.
Answer by Anonymous at 10:32 AM on Nov. 8, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:00 PM on Nov. 8, 2009
Wow, I hope you have a great job with that much debt are you done with school and will you be able to pay these off soon? I would have been working while in school that way you would be able to start some where to pay for it. I wouldnt marry you with that much. That is more then I make in a year and now you want to pay for a wedding? What type of wedding would you want? I wont. I learned many years if I dont have the money then I cantÂ pay it I was 6,000.00 I paid for it before married. The only thing we have is house payment and the car loan. Everything else if no cash we dont need it.
Answer by moma22angels at 1:04 PM on Nov. 8, 2009