My boss and I were friends before he got promoted. Recently, he has really been flirting with me a lot and there was a lot of sexual tension. He even made a comment about it at one point. I am very attracted to him, and finally got up the courage to make a move on him. He shot me down, BAD.
Firs tof all, I have never been shot down. Ever. Second of all, I didn't know how to react to the situation, and was so embarassed that I pretty much made a fool of myself. I was VERY pushy and tried to convince him that it was a good idea. He just kept telling me "I like getting a paycheck, it's not going to happen".
So now, things are totally weird. He is treating me different and I don't know how to react to him. I don't know what to do. Should I apologize? Pretend it didn't happen? Try pursuing things again? I really think he wants to hook up, but is afraid of losing his job. Ugh, I dont want things to be weird, any suggestions?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:02 AM on Nov. 10, 2009 in Relationships
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