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Would you have been hurt?

I was having dinner with my ex and we were talking about if we could change the past. I would not change anything bc it all lead up to my son. He said he would have changed it so we would not have our son. He loves him very much but I guess he thinks our son's life won't be that good now.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:54 AM on Nov. 10, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (7)
  • its just how he feels.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:55 AM on Nov. 10, 2009

  • I'd just feel bad for the ex because he doesn't realize how precious and amazing your son is. It's sad for him.
    beckcorc

    Answer by beckcorc at 10:56 AM on Nov. 10, 2009

  • Don't take it personally, men just don't think before they talk.
    living4mykids

    Answer by living4mykids at 11:05 AM on Nov. 10, 2009

  • men son't think too much liek we do. Just what he thought at the time. But he will change his mind , trust me. They usually do.
    bella69147

    Answer by bella69147 at 11:06 AM on Nov. 10, 2009

  • sorry about typos. I type really fast.
    bella69147

    Answer by bella69147 at 11:06 AM on Nov. 10, 2009

  • Maybe he feels guilty for not giving your son the kind of life he wanted too... maybe he is just saying how he feels, not that having your son is a regret or mistake in his life but that he wishes that the circumstances would have been different.
    ProudMom_5703

    Answer by ProudMom_5703 at 12:39 PM on Nov. 10, 2009

  • I forgot answer the question - yes, I would have been hurt.
    ProudMom_5703

    Answer by ProudMom_5703 at 3:32 PM on Nov. 10, 2009

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