My husband has been verbally abusive since a couple months into our marriage, and I got pregnant 3 months into marriage. He will call me names, tell me he wishes we'd gotten and anulment, etc. No hitting etc, though all abuse is wrong, I know.
He makes excuses like he's so tired, hates his job etc. Doesn't change anything.
We are trying to afford counseling. He feels terrible after treating me so poorly. BUT he just seems to stop trying again after a couple of days.
I love him... but I don't feel in love anymore b/c of this. I would get a divorce now, but I feel like God would want to to try.
So whether or not we get counseling, I'm giving him a year to improve A LOT or I will leave with our son. I don't know how to tell him this b/c his reaction will be, "FINE! Just leave now!" big huge reaction, etc. I only feel comfortable telling him with a counselor. I think he should know. What do you think, esp. Christian moms.
Asked by Anonymous at 3:50 PM on Nov. 10, 2009 in Relationships
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