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Is it possible to make a guy fall for you without him noticing?

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:22 AM on Nov. 11, 2009 in Relationships

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  • If you are a cunning suductress anything is possible. Wear ylang ylang oil, it is a natural love potion.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:31 AM on Nov. 11, 2009

  • Honestly, no, I don't think so. Because if HE'S falling for you, then he's going to know how HE'S feeling - and 99% of the time, it's not like these feelings just whack him in the back of the head, 0 to 60 in 3 seconds sort of thing. It's going to be a starting to fall for you sort of thing - he's interested, he thinks your cute, he thinks your fun, he really likes you, he cares about you, he's in love with you sort of thing.

    As far as "making" him fall for you - again, you can't MAKE someone feel something. All you can do is be yourself, and show you're interested in him, and see what happens from there.

    Answer by sailorwifenmom at 6:13 AM on Nov. 11, 2009

  • btw- I'm talking about having a relationship with someone. There are many ways to sort of steer a person into falling into bed with you, some people are better at it than others, and some people are more likely to fall for it than others. But, usually afterward, especially if it's been a sort of trick them / seduce them into it sort of thing with no romantic relationship established, they aren't going to think much of you (other than as a sex toy), or they're going to be mad at you / uncomfortable around you later.


    Answer by sailorwifenmom at 6:17 AM on Nov. 11, 2009

  • Why would you want to make a guy fall for you? Wouldn't you rather he come to love you for the person you are--your talents, your personality, your very nature as a human being? Some guys only want women for the sex. Those guys can be lured. Other guys want a wife to whom they can commit for a lifetime. Those are the ones who want to know everything about you, your family, your dreams and goals. The first kind of relationship is shallow and superficial and very short-lived. The second kind is a bonding of the souls and spirits and will last for a lifetime. The first one you can have in a pretty short time. The second takes patience and moves pretty slowly. The difference in the two is worth the waiting for the second. Anyone can have the first; the second comes only to those who are willing to wait and work for it. A relationship that is easy is usually not worth having--at least it won't be for very long.

    Answer by NannyB. at 8:05 AM on Nov. 11, 2009

  • What would be the point? I'd want him to notice. It's part of the fun. Do you want him to wake up one day and see you there and wonder what happened and how he got to that point?

    Answer by admckenzie at 9:51 AM on Nov. 11, 2009

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