I'm 31, divorced, and just plain lonely. I really want to meet someone to share my life with, but I just can't seem to find anyone. I was dating this guy for about 8 months and he treated me so badly. I've taken time to myself, I've had plenty of time to be alone now I'm ready to get back out there. I'm not ugly, I'm a little heavier than average but honestly I'm attractive and carry myself well. I have my own place, a good job, I go to church, I don't drink or smoke, I have no bio children ( I raised my SD, she still spends every other weekend with me), and I don't sleep around. I just can't understand why men are not attracted to me. It seems like EVERYONE around me has someone but me. I'm not rushing things, I'm just ready I guess. What should I do?
Asked by Anonymous at 1:40 PM on Nov. 11, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Bmat at 1:48 PM on Nov. 11, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 1:47 PM on Nov. 11, 2009
Answer by BlainesMommy09 at 1:49 PM on Nov. 11, 2009
I'm in the same boat, but a bit older than you. Come on over and have coffee with me. We can hang out and figure out what to do next! I have made the decision to stop being depressed about it and just have fun with my friends, married or single.
Answer by kjrn79 at 1:51 PM on Nov. 11, 2009
Jr college we just hung out together. First figure Out what your about then find someone that shares that. With me it was technology. I was older, no small kids. overweight and according to statistics I had a better chance of being in a car crash, plane crash and hit by a train before I would find someone to marry me. Well did the first two but missed the train, now been married for 14 years and he adores me and I him. I had given up even.
Answer by Anonymous at 1:57 PM on Nov. 11, 2009
Answer by lfl at 1:59 PM on Nov. 11, 2009
My joke I missed that train. He always responds I'm glad. Yes I was in a plane crash. Now it is time for our lunch chat. good luck. A song for you and all those so lonely.
Answer by Anonymous at 2:06 PM on Nov. 11, 2009
Answer by jessa1091 at 2:47 PM on Nov. 11, 2009
Answer by samurai_chica at 3:05 PM on Nov. 11, 2009