im a some-what young mother, i was 21 when i found out i was pregnant. it wasnt planned & i guess u can say i wasnt ready. at the time i still smoked pot, drank every weekend & smoked ciggerates. pot & alcohol was no problem to stop, but the ciggerates was really hard, i had been smoking since i was 13. my SO also started treating me really bad & basically abondoned me while i was pregnant so that made it even harder. im not making excuses for myself, im just explaining why. i tried so hard to quit, i would quit for two months & then something bad would happen & i would smoke. i felt so guilty the whole time & i still do. every time i look at my son, i feel so horrible that i could do that to him. even though hes healthy & perfect, the guilt drives me crazy sometimes. should i ever let myself stop feeling so guilty?
Asked by Anonymous at 6:55 PM on Nov. 11, 2009 in Health
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