I feel desperate. I feel that I don't have control of my life no more. Everything start a month later that my bf and I found out that I was pregnant; First they switch him to night crew ( 4-2am) meaning that we only spend couple of hours together, later was color guard seasons ( i say that cause is almost every week 2 or 3 ceremonies) and now He is telling me that they may send him to sergeant course for couple of weeks to 29 palms( 5 hours from where we live). I feel desperate, overwelming, sad etc... I feel that when i need him the most everything seen to be harder everytime more. Im going to be 5 months in a couple of weeks and I dont know what I going to do if this happen. I dont have any family in here, I feel really sad, I dont know what to do. Please help me, I need some support, any solution, anything that can help me to feel better.
Thank you. God bless you....
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Answer by tnmomofive at 5:34 PM on Nov. 12, 2009
Girl, This isnt going to get better as far as HIS schedule. That is the wife of a military spouse. You take on a lot of the responsibility and have to shoulder a great load. It doesnt get easier :( My mom was ombudsmen on one of our tours. She was the go to lady for the new women. She became very close with other wives in the unit, with neighbors on base, and was very involved with us kids. I am not being ugly, but it sounds like alot of YOU is based on him. You can be married to him but still have you! Do you have any passions, interests, or hobbies? NOW would be a good time to focus on some of those. Good Luck honey! Thats why when many thank those serving they thank those at home, because its so hard for them too!
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