My neighbor had gastric bypass surgery a couple of months ago. I saw her this morning for the first time in months after her surgery and she looks amazing. She cut and dyed her hair and lost about I would say 115 lbs. Next time I see her I would like to stop and talk but I'm not exactly sure what to say. She was a pretty woman even big, so I don't want to approach it with "Wow, you look great", because she looked pretty before. I don't want to make it seem like she looked like crap before and NOW she's pretty.
What's the best thing to say? How would you want someone to approach you?
Answer by mompam at 12:42 PM on Nov. 13, 2009
Answer by cassie_m at 12:44 PM on Nov. 13, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 12:45 PM on Nov. 13, 2009
Tell her she looks amazing.... I'm sure this has been a hard road for her, she will appreciate the compliment!!
Answer by Morgain at 1:08 PM on Nov. 13, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 1:09 PM on Nov. 13, 2009
Answer by dairyberrys at 3:45 PM on Nov. 13, 2009