You don't have to be Christian to answer this question! In fact, I'd like a wide range of opinions, please...
I was told by my counselor that to reduce my stress, I need to learn how to forgive. But there's someone who did something so horrible that I feel he should never be forgiven.
What do I do??
Remember, I'm Pagan, so telling me to "pray to God" is not an answer...
Answer by Amelora at 3:25 AM on Nov. 14, 2009
Answer by Ati_13 at 2:53 AM on Nov. 14, 2009
Sometimes it is so hard to forgive so I know what you mean, but if you don't than it will eat at you and keep eating at you forever. Forgiving is different from forgetting! I can forgive but I will never forget. It was hard to forgive my dad for the things he has done and said to me my whole 25 years of life and it made me feel alot better like a burden lifted off my shoulders but I have never forgot and never will. Good luck hon it takes a strong and bigger person to actually forgive and you seem strong enough to do that! Just figure out a way to do it and it takes time ( It took me 22 years) and in the long run you are the better person!
Answer by Anonymous at 3:06 AM on Nov. 14, 2009
Answer by baby133 at 5:14 AM on Nov. 14, 2009
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Answer by witchqueen at 12:00 PM on Nov. 14, 2009
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