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how long did you wait?

how long did you wait to have sex after having a baby?

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Asked by maris1192 at 3:59 PM on Nov. 14, 2009 in Relationships

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  • i had my baby almost 3 months ago , and still havent had any sexual encounter with my husband , i'd also like to add taht we have encounter soem difficulties , so that has something to do with not having sex with him lol . but i have heard that some women take almot 6 months while others the just one month lol

    Answer by happymom1988 at 4:05 PM on Nov. 14, 2009

  • I had my son exactly a month ago. We had sex after 3 weeks. I just couldn't wait LOL!!

    Answer by Deidra08 at 4:11 PM on Nov. 14, 2009

  • hmmm i think about 2 months i was having issues with brestfeeding and my iron was SO SO low that i was way to tierd for sex till around the 2 month mark

    Answer by jajamama at 4:14 PM on Nov. 14, 2009

  • 2 months, but I had stitches and couldn't imagine trying to initiate anything down there.

    Answer by Rileysmom425 at 4:43 PM on Nov. 14, 2009

  • i waited 2 weeks

    Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 4:56 PM on Nov. 14, 2009

  • almost two weeks

    Answer by angevil53 at 5:04 PM on Nov. 14, 2009

  • the 6 weeks they tell you to wait.

    Answer by Hali_Taylor at 5:09 PM on Nov. 14, 2009

  • Well all the books say that you can start as soon as your healed its different for everyone. I wait 3 weeks and it was fine. You will know when its right for you.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:20 PM on Nov. 14, 2009

  • 1 week to the day i waited

    Answer by hotmamaof297062 at 6:41 PM on Nov. 14, 2009

  • i think it was like 4 and a half weeks...

    Answer by michellelee3708 at 8:10 PM on Nov. 14, 2009

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