No I am not obsessed with this topic, I just have kids at this age. I was talking to my cousin yesterday.
She has girls I have boys and girls. My son's G/F's mom has provided chemical BC for her daughter. At first my cousin said she saw no problem because it is normally the girl's mom that has to raise a grand kid in this situation.
I asked my cousin how she would feel if the boy's parents provided condoms, spermicide ect for them. How would she feel if found out the boy's mom prepared him to have sex with her daughter. However, we both agreed the kids need to be educated.
Is BC talk with boys different than with girls? If you have taught your daughter to abstain and found her b/f was prepared to be protected would you be upset with the mom? I see premarital sex as a sin, but chemical BC can cause abortion and does not stop disease, what is my responsibility as other to a boy vs my girls?
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Answer by Cinnamon-mom at 5:18 PM on Nov. 14, 2009
Purpulbutterfly: I didn't have sex til I was married. It's not stupid or non-realistic.
Kattykitten: No, I wouldn't be upset. Besides, boys/men need to take responsibility for these things too. I know we would rather our children not have sex before they are married, but sometimes it happens and we would want them to be safe.
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