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Kid Crazy

Me and My husband recently got married,Well about 2 years ago.We have twins about 11 months old and a son 1 1/2 weeks He has a 17 year old daughter do you think it would be ok if we had a few more kids since she is so old?I am ready now he said he dosent know he thinks there to soon.

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:07 PM on Nov. 15, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Enjoy what you have now. Your twins are still very young and your husband is telling you it is too soon. Also do not forget to enjoy your husband, the more kids you have the less time you will have for your hubby!! He may want a partner to age with, he has been married before and may not want to do a large family thing. That was something you should of talked about before you got married.


    Answer by gammie at 10:13 PM on Nov. 15, 2009

  • You have 3 kids under 2yrs old... why don't you enjoy what you have --for now-- and then bring up the subject of more kids with your husband later. I imagine since your youngest is 1 1/2weeks old your husband is not ready to think about more children right now. Give it time.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:43 PM on Nov. 15, 2009

  • having lots of kids won't rub the other daughter out of his life. that sounds like what you are trying to do. this is why kids from other marriages don't like step moms. you shouldn't have married such an old guy

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:01 PM on Nov. 15, 2009

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