my boyfriend has this female co-worker, who i think likes him. i met her twice. she never crossed my mind until she texts him like every day. to tell him whats about to happen t work. to ask whats for dinner at work. for whatever. she brings him food to work. she asks him to go hang out w/ a male co-worker and her. she knows about me and our son. he says he doesnt see it. but i think its obvious. but am i wrong for getting upset that she always texts? i mean, i dont mind if they talk, but it doesnt have to be constant. they can talk at work. worry about work once your there. he mentions her name a lot. but i jus figured its cuz he works w her a lot. like if i hang out w/ my friends a lot iam going to mention them.
i asked him if he likes her, he said no. he says shes a player. has lots of boyfriends and hes not interested in that. but he did say she was pretty. should i think there is something up?
INTERESTING answers. I asked if I should be upset about my husband texting a former co-worker about our children's problems with out my knowing (and from the way they talked, they talk often) and wow!! I was made to feel like a jealous 16 yr.old crazy girlfriend instead of a much older wife. ANYWAY...ABOUT YOU. Yes, it would bother me. My husband gets text's from female co-workers too, but AT work and ABOUT work. Not about what's for dinner? And it seems that your not bothered by other female co-workers, so If a red flag is going up...pay attention to it. BUT, don't let your thoughts go wild. Stay calm, and watch and listen. If there's something going on or about to go, it will show itself. Also, tell him calmly and lovingly how much this brothers you. Maybe he doesn't realize it's got a hold of you? Hope this helps. :-)
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