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Can you proof your heterosexuality?

A lot of people here demand homosexuals to proof they were born this way, can any of you that are heterosexuals proof how you got to be one? Was there a choice involved, or did your natural instincts kick in? Why is it so dificult to understand that gays instincts kick in just like they do for heteros?


Asked by older at 7:39 AM on Nov. 17, 2009 in Politics & Current Events

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  • I will use my faith as my arguement. My arguement has been around for more than 2000 years The agenda for forced acceptance by a fraction of the population is an infant incomparison. basis of which all fruitless arguments are made. Faith is great for some things, but when it comes to denying people their constitutionally protected rights you're going to need something grounded in the rational realm. Got anything tangible?


    Answer by SRiveroC at 2:43 PM on Nov. 17, 2009

  • It's not hard to understand. It's pretty damn obvious to me.

    Answer by Carpy at 7:41 AM on Nov. 17, 2009

  • If they think there is any choice in the matter of sexual orientation, then I wonder if they aren't struggling with the issues themselved. Otherwise it would be natural to assume that sexual orientation is NOT a matter of choice. I never had to sit down and really make any decisions about being heterosexual.

    Answer by BJoan at 7:51 AM on Nov. 17, 2009

  • Can I proof it?

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:52 AM on Nov. 17, 2009

  • anon, thanks for the correction see past the typo and answer the question?

    Answer by older at 7:56 AM on Nov. 17, 2009

  • Ha ha can I proof it? So I was BORN heterosexual 'cause I have a vagina and men have a penis. Just like animals, we are born to reproduce, so how can I reproduce with another women?!?!

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:09 AM on Nov. 17, 2009

  • Smart anon, how about a sperm bank, thousand of those around!

    Answer by older at 8:11 AM on Nov. 17, 2009

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    Answer by CafeMom Admin at 8:18 AM on Nov. 17, 2009

  • I understand the choice/no choice just fine. I understand that there are genuine gays and lesbians.......and then there are the "look at me rebel by saying I am gay and raise as much trouble as possible" gays. My Aunt is gay. Her and her partner live together in Texas and have been together for over 10 yrs. Being gay ia a PART of who she is, not the all consuming center of her life. She doesnt feel the need to shout from roof tops and street corners at people who may disagree with her, but she doesnt hide either. No, as a heterosexual Ido not choose who turns me on. I will take it a step farther and say I even have definite type when it comes to men themselves (big brawny country boys ;) BUT its only a part of me not my all consuming focus in life. I think right now its "cool" to be gay and its those people that are using to rebel that cause most of the problems.


    Answer by momof030404 at 8:20 AM on Nov. 17, 2009

  • Why attack over this question? I mean it's so dumb it's not worth answering.

    Answer by itsmesteph11 at 8:21 AM on Nov. 17, 2009