I'm 19 (turning 20 in a couple days) and just found out I was pregnant a few days ago. I told my boyfriend...we both decided on abortion because of our circumstances...I'm in my 3rd year of college with a year and a half to graduate and we are both no so great with money. At least I get my own bills paid on time but still...My mom had me at 16 and has worked VERY hard to give me the best life and has done so successfully. I've never once felt like I've missed out on opportunities because she had me at such a young age. I LOVE my mom and would never do anything to hurt her...which is why I'm scared to have this baby. I know once I tell her she will feel disappointed in me and tell me that abortion would be the best thing for me but after getting all the information on it, I could never live with myself if I went through it...So my boyfriend and I decided to keep the baby, are we making the right decision? how will we survive?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 8:42 AM on Nov. 17, 2009 in Pregnancy
Answer by Anonymous at 9:02 AM on Nov. 17, 2009
Answer by jen699 at 9:18 AM on Nov. 17, 2009
What about adoption? My cousins adopted two kids and they are loved more because of it, the kids were the answer to there prayers. Then the child could have all the love and a life. You could finish school and be ready to have a family before you start one. And I recommend getting on a more reliable birth control so you don't have to make this difficult decision again.
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