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my hubby's ex is trying to get in touch with him

why cant she get the hint he is married and wants nothing to do w/ her

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:41 AM on Nov. 17, 2009 in Relationships

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  • change your phone numbers and check his e-mails do not leave them alone for a min.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:44 AM on Nov. 17, 2009

  • If they did not have children together....This is totally unacceptable!

    Answer by texasmommy69 at 10:46 AM on Nov. 17, 2009

  • i agree no children together or anything then there is no reason for interaction

    Answer by Rebeccaroe at 10:51 AM on Nov. 17, 2009

  • Do they have children together? If yes- then he needs to say "all calls will be about the children only"
    If no then it is hard to say why she is calling him-- maybe she is jelous that he has moved on with his life and wants to cause trouble, maybe she is trying to get him back or maybe she does have something important to tell him (like the death of a relative). If she is calling alot then he should take her call, see what she wants. If she is trying to get him back he needs to tell her it is over and he wants no contact from her. Then delete her number or block her.

    Answer by MizLee at 10:55 AM on Nov. 17, 2009

  • Why are you so insecure? Like you said he is married to you. She could be trying to give something of his back to him. My husband ex girlfriend from 18 years ago contacted him three weeks ago. She found his class ring in her things she wanted to know if he wanted it back. He did. She mailed it to us and we have not heard from her since. Instead of being insecure be confident and let him deal with it not your problem it is his.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:57 AM on Nov. 17, 2009

  • no children and they left on a bad note.. while i was pregnant she would always call and curse us out and we changed our numbers but recently she even asked if he was married and then tried getting his number and they didnt give it to her so she gave them hers to give to him. I would say if she didnt stalk and alwasy call and be rude i wouldnt care if they had a mature adult convo just seeing what they have been up to or where they are in their lives now but she cant so now it is just a pain in the butt. She is just a different kind of gal. One i've never imagined.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:05 AM on Nov. 17, 2009

  • Call her and ask her what she wants

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:16 AM on Nov. 17, 2009

  • Have your husband call her from an annonymous number, & watch him tell her to leave him alone. This will make you feel much better.

    Answer by samurai_chica at 11:28 AM on Nov. 17, 2009

  • I swear we have tried this.. we even told her if she kept harassing us we would put a restraining order and the reason why it did was b/c we changed our numbers but i garantee you she still kept calling the old numbers leaving us nasty messages... Im telling y'all this girl is different.. i hope she doesnt do this the rest of our lives it has been 4 yrs of this craziness!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:31 AM on Nov. 17, 2009

  • If it is an ongoing issue with her calling and trying to make trouble then it would be a good idea to record her calls, and document time/date in a notebook, then take it in and get a restraining order on her. I would not tell her you are doing it, as then she may stop, wait a while and start back up again.
    good luck- I hope she will leave you and your hubby alone and move on with her life.

    Answer by MizLee at 3:56 PM on Nov. 17, 2009

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