My boyfriend recently told that he wants a "freak" in the bedroom. I have never been more that "normal" from what I am told but I have no idea how to be a freak and basically have no holds bar with our sex life.
I really want to please him and such but I am afraid that if I do not become this, it will kill what we have.
I do not want or need any bashing... so please dont!! I just need some advice on how to turn my thoughts around and maybe bring something out in me that he will like!
Asked by Anonymous at 12:15 PM on Nov. 18, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by tropicalmama at 12:18 PM on Nov. 18, 2009
Answer by tabbykat6802 at 12:21 PM on Nov. 18, 2009
Answer by tabbys4 at 12:25 PM on Nov. 18, 2009
Take baby steps. You're not going to become a super freak over night, but you can push your own boundaries. Start by stepping out of your comfort zone, just a little, and in time it will become your comfort zone and then you can step out again. It will be a slow process but then again, you have your whole lives to explore your sexuality. It will keep the passion alive in long term relationships.
Answer by beeky at 12:46 PM on Nov. 18, 2009
Answer by happymom1988 at 1:02 PM on Nov. 18, 2009