Wow, R & B is so morbid today..........
I, personally, do not want to be viewed at all after I die. I will concede to possibly my hand, like I got with my late DH, but anything more than that, no matter how badly the family members think they want it is disturbing to me. Don't get me wrong, if I'd been able to fully view my LH, I would've. I'm glad I couldn't. His hand looked 99% normal and it gave me closure. Seeing his face, even if he'd been unblemished, would not have. I want to be cremated and don't even like the thought of someone I loved being in a casket or buried in the ground. Cremation is so much more instant than a burial and somehow that doesn't disturb me nearly as much..........your thoughts?
Answer by jesse123456 at 6:37 PM on Nov. 18, 2009
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Answer by shay1130 at 6:16 PM on Nov. 18, 2009
I don't mind an open casket. It all depends on how good the body looks.
Answer by beeky at 6:37 PM on Nov. 18, 2009
I don't care whatever my fam wants to do... i won't be there just an empty shell. I used to joke with my mom that funerals and caskets were a waste of money... should just dig a whole role a person in so why spend all that money... her and my dad went and made arrangements (lol) actually they both had beautiful funerals and caskets. but i have told my son not to waste a whole bunch of money on a funeral for me... a box don't care what it's made of... dig a whole, roll me in...
Answer by Anonymous at 6:42 PM on Nov. 18, 2009
I will have my carcass burned. I do not want people gawking and bawling over my corpse. I bothers me enough that the hospital and mortician will looking at my nakedness and possibly doing perverted things to it. I'm one of those people who need to control everything and it scares me to think I will not be in control of my death, funeral and burial.
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