if he cheated and then left you...would you try to get him back....what if he wanted to be with this other woman....would you eventually try to befriend her...
I honestly believe that if my husband ended up with someone else...I would want to be friendly with her...afterall some of the time my children would have to be looked after by her....
What would you do if she was an awful woman ?
Answer by looovemybabies at 2:33 AM on Nov. 19, 2009
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Answer by mommy16love at 3:06 AM on Nov. 19, 2009
Well, we took a vow...til death do us part so, after 24 years, I would be willing to relinquish him BUT he'd have to honor the vows. The other woman can dig him up after he's dead and have him then but first he has to honor his vows to me. LOL
In all seriousness if, after 24 years, my husband wanted to leave me for another woman I'd let him go. I am not going to beg. Marriage takes work and if he'd be willing to quit on our marriage & find someone else without trying to work things out then he'd be free to go. I don't want to be with a quitter.
Would I befriend the other woman? No. But, we have 4 sons and grandchildren so I would be civil so as to not put my sons in a difficult position. Inside I'd be pissed and hurt but on the outside I'd be civil and collected.
Answer by tracylynnr67 at 3:33 AM on Nov. 19, 2009
Answer by sailorwifenmom at 4:50 AM on Nov. 19, 2009
Oh, and as far as the other woman, I would be polite and as classy as I could be about it. For the sake of my kids. And, petty as it sounds, also because I wouldn't want to do anything that either of them could REMOTELY say "see, look how nasty and mean, or how over the top, (or whatever) she is, I can see why he left her for me" Or "see what a !)#$$% my ex, is, who can blame me for wanting to leave..." I wouldn't want to give them the satisfaction of ever, even the tiniest bit, be able to justify it to themselves because of something I did after the fact. Mean, probably, but that's my honest feeling on it
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