I want to know if anyone has been through this........I am married and in love with my best friend deeply and he is also married I have known him for 20+ years and did not realize how much until recently maybe a year ago, we were chatting about our marriages recently and I cried and cried about how much I love this man and I told him and he responded (I still love my wife) but he loves me as well now mind you his wife has left him several times not for long but just the fact is she keeps leaving, I love my husband but not in love with him I just want to be happy and I want him to be happy as well but I prefer he is happy with me.
Upset and in love
Asked by Anonymous at 6:05 PM on Nov. 19, 2009 in Relationships
Oh geez. Who cares that his wife keeps leaving HE AND his WIFE need to work on that. The last thing they need is another woman coming in to make things worse.
Why don't you talk to your DH and try counseling instead of giving up on your life just because of SELFISHNESS? Are there kids involved here too?
Answer by Anonymous at 6:09 PM on Nov. 19, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 6:10 PM on Nov. 19, 2009
If you really did love him you wouldn't be interfering with his marriage.
Answer by Anonymous at 6:18 PM on Nov. 19, 2009
Answer by fefe87 at 6:24 PM on Nov. 19, 2009
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Answer by kathyartist2007 at 7:09 PM on Nov. 19, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 8:32 PM on Nov. 19, 2009
What you are feeling is not really love. It is a walk down memory land and that has definately not withstood the test of time. Do you really want to be a sitting duck for the Karma Police? Because I guarantee if either of you follow through with this relationship you will be setting it up for failure.
Answer by pnwmom at 9:11 PM on Nov. 19, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 3:28 AM on Nov. 20, 2009