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I just lost my mother...

I called her... becuse I was worried... I called her...becuase she didnt call back... The small life within me urged me to check on her.. I felt like I knew the answer all ready...

I grabbed my S/O and we left for her house... which was littered with packages and old mail...

I unlocked the door...cold steel that should have regisiterd...however, I was already numb.

The pages of my favorite books were ripped by her dogs,her 'other children'

I fliped on her light and she was sleeping...her dogs wouldnt leave her side...
I dont remember screaming.... I dont remember trembling.. I just remember going cold as I saw her pallid profile...already bloched and decaying...

My S/O called 911... I faded out untill I felt a hand on my shoulder...
a purple glove that led up to numbed eyes "we're sorry."

I was rushed into the ER to check on my baby...
She should have held on longer... she tought me to be

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Nerdymama

Asked by Nerdymama at 2:06 AM on Nov. 20, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (10)
  • I'm so sorry. :(
    SusieD250

    Answer by SusieD250 at 2:15 AM on Nov. 20, 2009

  • I am so sorry for your loss.
    NightPhoenix

    Answer by NightPhoenix at 2:35 AM on Nov. 20, 2009

  • Not to be rude here or a wet noodle, but according to her profile she lost her Mom in April?

    I do not understand her post now.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:57 AM on Nov. 20, 2009

  • My bad......damn I hate my glasses at times. darn bifocals need new ones

    It was some one else whom had lost their Mom on HER page.

    SO sorry for your loss hun.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:59 AM on Nov. 20, 2009

  • its alright.. I think.. I dont know.. I think I might be the primary ...handler..of what to do.. my sister is 12 years older than I am but I dont know the first thing about this...could anyone help?
    Nerdymama

    Answer by Nerdymama at 3:21 AM on Nov. 20, 2009

  • First of all I am deeply sorry for your loss, I know how it is to loose your mother mine pass Feb. 03' and that was after she had made a promise to my dad that she would go to the hospital. The hospital was maybe 5 mins from our home and that was that. What help me though is my mother was very ill with Lupus and she had no more pain. That is what gave me strength she had no more pain, yes I miss her even still today but there is no more pain.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:12 AM on Nov. 20, 2009

  • I am so sorry for your loss..I lost my Dad on August 3rd, it is so difficult to take in. Stay strong, mama..I wish I could say something that actually helped!
    ajtherad

    Answer by ajtherad at 10:28 AM on Nov. 20, 2009

  • So sorry :(
    charlotsomtimes

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 10:31 AM on Nov. 20, 2009

  • why does this read like a novel?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:23 AM on Nov. 20, 2009

  • Its written a little odd because writing is how I cope, Im sorry it just kind of came out like that.....i
    Nerdymama

    Answer by Nerdymama at 8:31 PM on Nov. 20, 2009

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