i just found out at my child support hearing that my ex might have a child with the women that he dumped me for when i was 4mo along (he no longer with her) the ex swears it isnt his but he lies alot(but the time period that she would have gotten pregnant they were together ) the woman who i will call *nikki* didnt show up the ex did get swabbed for a paternity test but i dont think he will tell me if it is his (he told me that nikki was abusive and that it doesnt concern me which hes kinda right about ) but if that childis his i would like to reach out to nikki in the hopes that we might be able to get our kids together what should i do
Asked by Anonymous at 7:20 PM on Nov. 20, 2009 in General Parenting
Answer by Desirae17 at 9:04 PM on Nov. 20, 2009
Answer by louise2 at 7:25 PM on Nov. 20, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 7:26 PM on Nov. 20, 2009
That is opening a can of worms and will cause more drama then it is worth. Find a good playgroup for your child to enjoy other kids with. Leave it alone, it is a rare case that this would work out.
Answer by DevilInPigtails at 7:38 PM on Nov. 20, 2009
Answer by tyfry7496 at 7:39 PM on Nov. 20, 2009
Answer by goaliemom93 at 10:35 PM on Nov. 20, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:49 PM on Nov. 20, 2009
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