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My husband is deployed and I have been feeling lonley and thinking of cheating.

I have been on a few dating sites. I know i'm a loser trust me.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 5:11 PM on Nov. 21, 2009 in Just for Fun

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  • Do you love your husband? Don't do something that will change your future FOREVER! You can't take something like that back. Being lonely sucks, but look at it this way . . . loneliness during deployment or loneliness until when/if you ever fall in love again . . . think of your children.
    BridgetC140

    Answer by BridgetC140 at 5:14 PM on Nov. 21, 2009

  • This isn't a question.

    Everyone gets lonely. I've been with my DH for over 2 years and we've been married for over 1 year. ...we have never lived together. We have never spent more then 1 straight month together at any given time. Including when we first met.

    Find yourself a hobby. I scrapbook and i love it. it keeps me focused on what is truly important in my life.
    outstandingLove

    Answer by outstandingLove at 5:16 PM on Nov. 21, 2009

  • Sad you are very sad
    Im sorry You married a military man.
    Being on dateing sites you have already in my book cheated.
    Your husband deserves someone better who will love him and not screw around on him
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:22 PM on Nov. 21, 2009

  • Just say no. You will be glad you did later.
    jesse123456

    Answer by jesse123456 at 5:22 PM on Nov. 21, 2009

  • OP Here- all you ladies are right I'm trying to fight the urge but I met this guy online and it's been hard not to pursue it. I haven't met him or done anything yet.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:22 PM on Nov. 21, 2009

  • OP Here- I haven't met anyone in person.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:25 PM on Nov. 21, 2009

  • i agree with raine2001, but if he was to read this he would prob let your sorry ass go anyways with out a fight it shows how much YOU DO NOT LOVE HIM
    firstimemomm603

    Answer by firstimemomm603 at 5:25 PM on Nov. 21, 2009

  • THAT DOESNT MEAN IT IS NOT CHEATING EAITHER WAY YOU ARE WANTING TO DO IT AND HAVE STARTED TO BY GETTING ON DATING SITES. YOU ASKED FOR IT
    firstimemomm603

    Answer by firstimemomm603 at 5:26 PM on Nov. 21, 2009

  • PO Here- Ok I'm a cheater (Shrugs Shoulders).
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:30 PM on Nov. 21, 2009

  • Go for it. Good chance he is sleeping with someone else too.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:36 PM on Nov. 21, 2009

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