I started potty training with my son when he turned 2 on Nov. 10th.....

First, you should consider this successful. However, we had this "problem" for awhile. What worked for us was to walk her through the steps of initiating the potty-going. Here's what we did specifically. Two things. First, I watched for her signs (pee pee dance), and call attention to them: "You're holding yourself, I can tell you need to go potty. Let's go." Second, we stopped giving any little reward for successful pottying if we took her. She didn't need that anymore anyway. I explained to her, "if YOU say 'potty' and take US to the potty, you can have an M&M." When it had been awhile since she last peed, I really encouraged her... "don't you want to say 'potty,' take me to the potty, and go potty so you can have an m&m?" For about a day, she'd do it just for the m&m. But after that she did it when she needed to potty (and after that we'd rarely take her unless she said so -- except before we left the house, etc).