I am writing a book about mothers being scapegoats in our society. Since I've been in here, I've seen a lot of women who have disowned their mothers but no mothers who have been disowned by their children. Is there anyone out there who has been disowned by their children and why?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:19 PM on Nov. 25, 2009 in Adult Children (18+)
Not quite what you are looking for but my children are adopted and two of them have contacted bio mothers, neither is interested in pursuing relationship with their bio moms.
Answer by higherboundmom at 7:32 PM on Nov. 25, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 7:44 PM on Nov. 25, 2009
ME. My oldest daughter. Disowned me. She said the reason is because I was to strict, her word are abusive. I do not think I was abusive, just strict. She says I am to negative. Now she goes and tells my youngest DD that she was almost molested as a child. But she will not talk to me so I can not find out any info about what she is meaning by that. I think, how are we suppose to straighten things out if we do not talk.
Answer by louise2 at 8:05 PM on Nov. 25, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 9:44 PM on Nov. 25, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 12:26 PM on Nov. 26, 2009
Excuse me Anonymous 7:44, but I never told my kids anything about their bio moms or dads,for goodness sakes their parents are a part of who they are if I put down the birth parents then I put down my children. When my children turned 18 I did what I could to help them find the bio parents. I sent them to visit and/or invited bio parents to visit, my kids are intelligence people and can decide for themselves the character of people. The intelligence, beautiful eyes and genetics come from these people, the love, caring, and moral makeup come from us. Get that chip off your shoulder.
Answer by higherboundmom at 6:25 PM on Nov. 26, 2009
Answer by forevermom9 at 3:55 AM on Nov. 27, 2009
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Answer by Mrs.Owen86 at 2:52 PM on Dec. 3, 2009