my boyfriend (of 6 years) was diagnosed with testicular cancer 2 days ago.
we are both devistated and sad :( i honestly dont know how to cope with him having cancer, he acts different (and he has every right) but it does hurt me too because i care about him. i dont know how to support him...i dont know how to be strong enough for the both of us.
its soo difficult beacuse i am a working mom, he is a stay at home dad to our 2 year old daughter.
how do i cope with his cancer?
Answer by ALLO2009 at 2:24 AM on Nov. 26, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 2:23 PM on Nov. 26, 2009
My son had cancer and nearly died twice. First ((((HUGS)))) You will need one person to hold your hand while you hold him up second keep a journal to discuss real feelings and fears you have this is your place to write down how you feel third take a deep breath and make an hour a week for yourself taking care of someone with cancer is hard work and listen to everything he says he is the patient. Remember you can do it if you ever need to talk you may im me. My son is alive and so you will make it and your boyfriend will recover!!!
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 5:25 PM on Nov. 26, 2009