How do you cope with the loss of your baby during the holidays?

Sweetie, I have no idea. Your a stronger person than I am. Hang in there.

I know it is hard. I've never lost a baby, but I've watched year after year as my own mother has mourned the loss of my brother. At some point, you will have to pick up the pieces and go on, inside and out. You'll never forget your beautiful little girl, and no one will ever expect you to. For your son's sake, you are putting on a happy face, but you yourself need healing. I don't know how to tell you to do that. If it's possible, maybe you could seek counseling. i know something that's helped my mom every year since my brother died was to light a candle each night for him around the holidays. It might sound silly to some but for her, somehow it gives her comfort.

Every holiday i go to her grave and decorate it really nice. i just cant help but to think, she would be 2 years and 4 months this Christmas. ugh god :( its crazy because my son looks so much like her. it really makes me proud but at the same time its a constant reminder.

yor not with out her, she is still with you, in your heart always know that. blessing to your family. remember you have a lil angel watching over you

You just do it, I went for 7 years after the loss of my daughter without being able to have another child, I felt sorry for myself, I pouted, I screamed it wasn't fair, and you know it isn't. I guess the only thing I have to say is time does make it better, 4 years ago DS was born, and that did ease my pain somewhat, but there is not a day that goes by I don't think about Lily, and what she could have been to our family, but although I got sick of people telling me everything happens for a reason, I do know believe it, no way at the age of 38 would I have had a baby had she lived, now DS Billy is here. God Bless you and know our little ones have someone special looking out for them now, I am sorry for you and for any mom that has to bear this, it is the worst pain anyone can know, bless you and special hugs to you give your kiddo a hug from me and Billy!