My little girl Kaylynn passed away august 31 2007 due to her cord kinking at the base of her little belly cutting off her life line. It has been the hardest thing i have ever experienced in my life and i deal with the sorrow and void everday of my life. Around the holidays i feel so lost and disconnected. My son is 17 months and im so excited that he is old enough to really enjoy Christmas this year :) On the outside im smiling and happy as can be but inside im screaming and crying... how do i get thru another year with out her?
Answer by Pieta0227 at 1:38 AM on Nov. 27, 2009
Answer by armywife2009101 at 9:22 PM on Nov. 26, 2009
I know it is hard. I've never lost a baby, but I've watched year after year as my own mother has mourned the loss of my brother. At some point, you will have to pick up the pieces and go on, inside and out. You'll never forget your beautiful little girl, and no one will ever expect you to. For your son's sake, you are putting on a happy face, but you yourself need healing. I don't know how to tell you to do that. If it's possible, maybe you could seek counseling. i know something that's helped my mom every year since my brother died was to light a candle each night for him around the holidays. It might sound silly to some but for her, somehow it gives her comfort.
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