I have to admit, I have begun to lurk in the Birthmoms group due to some of the activity here. I dont feel comfortable posting there but something caught my eye.
There is a woman who is planning on placing her child and has meet with the Acouple a few times already. That couple already has an open adoption with their other child's bmom. She is being warned that just because they have an open adoption with the other, it doesnt mean they wont close it on her.
The end result was that she was advised that she should contact the older childs bmom and interview her.
If the APs would not release the info on their other childs bmom, would that be a dealbreaker?
I feel that this unfairly punishes those who cant release the 1st bmoms info (foster care adoptions, bmoms who simply dont want a lot of contact, etc)
I have a very open adoption with my 2nd child but you couldnt have predicted that based on the 1st.
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