I just got a paper in the mail to tell me that he did not appear in court for the speeding ticket he never told me about so now we owe 280 dollars we don't have! Uhg! What am I supposed to do about this. I mean obviously pay it when we can(asap) but what about Dh? I asked and he says 'Oh! I totally forgot about that!' How in the Heck do you forget you got pulled over? I mean really?
Answer by Anonymous at 1:09 PM on Nov. 28, 2009
Answer by beckcorc at 12:42 PM on Nov. 28, 2009
OMG I am with you beat him lol, I would probably be screaming for a good 2 hours if my dh did that. I dont know why men forget these type of details, they just do. Last time My dh got pulled over (about 4 years ago) he told me that it was my sons fault because he made him late and he was having to speed, LOL I said ummm excuse me are you not the parent? do you not have the ability to pick a 5 y/o up and place him in the car on time? He was just mad because i had just made the last payment on a previous ticket and he got another one and knew i was going to be mad. I am telling you men are just not entirely bright somedays.
Answer by 3_ring_circus_ at 12:46 PM on Nov. 28, 2009
Answer by baby133 at 1:06 PM on Nov. 28, 2009
Unfortunately when we marry, we also incur their debts as well (according to Uncle Sam). Getting angry is counter productive. My hubby would make ATM withdrawals and forget which ones you could withdraw from for free. All those fees added up to the point that we had checks bounce! Telling him to write it in the checkbook was telling him how to take care of business so he'd get pissed. I learned to periodically order credit reports, check driver licenses for outstanding tickets, etc., and just pay them. I'd talk with him, not so much about the tickets, but about his overall irresponsibility and how it affects our family.
Answer by Ewadun at 1:19 PM on Nov. 28, 2009
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