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Is it really possible?

for a man who repeatedly cheated (more then 4 times) on his wife, to all of the sudden just up and change?? His former wife left him because of the cheating and lying and hooked up with 2 girls after she left him (sexually) and then only a few months later got with one of the women he cheated with (they didnt have sex, but they were being innapropriate online and kissed) she was already married, so now they are both divorced and together..this is a man who is a cereal cheater, liar and said he just wanted to be alone because he felt trapped and didnt like the married life. Now hes all into his new family (he got her pregnant after 3 months together) and his social networking pages are talking about how much hes in love with her and all this shit, and it looks like she made him put it up, it all looks so can a man change that fast, it seems very fake and not very likely, talking about how they were meant to be

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Asked by Anonymous at 5:26 PM on Nov. 28, 2009 in Relationships

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  • These type of men don't change, he will continue his cheating spree only with more caution for not getting caught. It is almost like a challenge. I would not trust this change reformation at all!

    Answer by older at 5:31 PM on Nov. 28, 2009

  • a lot of women dont like these types of men but they are out there
    they cheat and lie with one woman and treat another like gold

    Just because a man treated one woman like shit doesnt mean he'll treat all women like shit. JMO

    ppl make mistakes, maybe he really wasnt in love before, maybe they had marital issues you dont know about, its pretty common, ie the US divorce rates
    just because a man or woman treated one other person not so great doesnt mean they treat all people that way

    Answer by DomoniqueWS at 5:54 PM on Nov. 28, 2009

  • It had nothing to do with his ex wife, but maybe it was because she let him walk all over her, shes was really nice and did everything for him and that had sex whenever he asked...but IM one of the girls he hooked up with AFTER she left him...he also got me pregnant, but he didnt want our he gave me money to have an abortion so I did...please im NOT a troll im being serious...i just dont understand why he didnt want our baby but he wanted hers..

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:07 PM on Nov. 28, 2009

  • well honey, maybe he knew he wasn't going to be with you. Maybe his new wife/girlfriend is the one. Makes him want to change. I dunno. Life is full of mysteries.

    Now I do feel like life is full of changes. ppl do change, no one stays the same, life won't allow it. Maybe he's changing and is tired of cheating and hurting ppl. Maybe this girl is special enough to make him want to change.OR maybe she came into his life at a time where he wanted to change and he matured. I'm sorry for his ex-wife and you who got the bad side of him, but maybe the bad happened to yall to make yall a stronger woman or to teach you a lesson. Life is either love or a lesson.

    Answer by DaGoodLife at 6:32 PM on Nov. 28, 2009

  • Evidently he found the right woman for him. Wish him well and move on.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:39 PM on Nov. 28, 2009

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