We understand our dh's have to support their kids from a previous marriage and I understand he can give them money on the side if he wants. but does that kind of bother you or do you just blow it off the way I try too...lol I mean I have to right?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:33 AM on Nov. 30, 2009 in Teens (13-17)
Answer by Anonymous at 10:42 AM on Nov. 30, 2009
Answer by kimigogo at 10:46 AM on Nov. 30, 2009
Answer by LindaClement at 10:47 AM on Nov. 30, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:17 AM on Nov. 30, 2009
If my husband had children from a previous relationship I would think better of him for giving more to his children. In fact, I am positive if I was not with my husband anymore, he would go above and beyond for our son. That is if his new wife will continue to support that. I think any man who provides for his children is a good man. It sounds like you married a man who, not only loves you, but loves his children. You have a true winner and shows you have excellent taste in men. The only oh no situation: is if he gives and really can't afford to give extras. We do need to stay within our means. Perhaps talking to your husband about a budget and setting some money a side for those special occasions where he can give his children a little extra. If you have a joint income house where your money merges, it would be appropriate for him to discuss with you how your money is spent.
Answer by frogdawg at 9:50 AM on Dec. 1, 2009
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