I have a guy that Im dating who is so adament about not dating someone seriously with bad credit. I have an eviction on my record, due to some crazy circumstances, but am not worried because I know it will take years for me to get a good credit score anyway, especially not until after I graduate college and get a better paying job. The crazy part is HE IS IN THE MIDDLE OF BANKRUPTCY COURT! I think this is very hypocritical...so my question is...is one worse than the other? or is it all bad regardless? I can understand his fear from being in a long-term relationship with someone who is not financially responsible, but he knows that I had reasons to get the eviction I did, as well as I know his situation. Is it wrong for him to judge? Not asking for bashers or smart-asses...just answer the question thanks!Answer Question
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Answer by slw123 at 3:01 PM on Nov. 30, 2009
Is it wrong for him to judge? I think it is wrong for anybody to suspend their judgement and jump into something as serious as marriage. He is trying to tell you this is a temporary relationship. Believe him. Don't worry about him "judging you" He already has. Hear what he is saying, "This won't last forever. Don't get too wrapped up in me." He already has his out and will eventually say Good Bye. Then he will make it hurt worse by telling you that he never said it was forever. Listen to the underlying message. Get out now and right him off as a hypocrite. Even though he is just trying to be honest with you. He has no intention of buying the cow, but if you are giving the milk away for free he has no moral delima with taking advantage of you.
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