My fiance and I have been fighting a lot about sex lately -- we have 2 boys, ages 2 and 4, I work full-time, and I am about 3 months pregnant with TWINS... yet he thinks that we should be having sex at least every other day. I know that doesn't sound like too much... but it is for me. It is hard to try and fit it in when I work night shift... so once the kids are in bed, it's time for me to go to work... then we are both busy during the day. So it's not really either of our faults.... yet he blames me and bitches about it all the time.
It has gotten to the point that I am ready for us to split up because I feel like this is always going to be his top priority and he is never going to be satisfied with me. In my opinion, he is waaaay too worried about sex. I mean, why can't we have a happy and healthy relationship that isn't TOTALLY dependent on whether or not we have sex as much as he wants it?
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Answer by liz1986 at 2:35 PM on Dec. 2, 2009
I am leaving my relationship because it has been ten years he thought we should have a relationship where it did not depend on sex or whether or not we had it or not. Maybe you should tell him how he can make it less stressful for you and tell him what you want from the relationship. Good luck!!
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