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what the heck

okay this is a story. LOL well my husbands ex wrote to him on facebook on thanksgiving a jr. high high school girlfried. well weve been together for 6 yrs it doesnt bother me he doesnt want to talk to her. shes like an ex wife who wont let go of his family LOL once again it doesnt bother me i know his sister is friends with her. once she came by when we were at his sisters and he wouldnt talk to her she cheated he doesnt like her. and when she wrote on this past thanksgiving she ends with i hope this doesnt cause any problem... well ive only met her that one time 5 yrs ago and we havent heard from her since but his sister always tells me that she ask about me and about us and our kids and to send pictures. she is married and has a kid. in a way i feel bad for her but she seems crazy how do i handle this. ive just been silent but i feel like saying do you not get he doesnt want to talk to you?

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Asked by whitenena at 2:05 PM on Dec. 2, 2009 in Relationships

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  • SAY IT. She's not getting it so give her a symbolic whack over the head.

    Answer by gdiamante at 2:12 PM on Dec. 2, 2009

  • i would make sure he is not friends with her on facebook. my husband said the same thing about his ex. that she cheated he doesnt like he and he started talking to her more and more and they hooked up.. i would trust her.. they always start out so nice.. i hope your wife dosent mind to .... lets not tell her this.. watch out..

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:23 PM on Dec. 2, 2009

  • no hes not he barley gets on maybe once or twice a month... he only has facebook to write to his mom she lives in puerto rico its easier to write this way lol. she lives in atl. plus i compleatly trust him

    Answer by whitenena at 2:30 PM on Dec. 2, 2009

  • Let him handle it or ignore it.

    Answer by admckenzie at 3:02 PM on Dec. 2, 2009

  • Yes i would confront her. Did he answer her? and if he wants nothing to do with her why did he accept her as a friend on facebook. If he truly wants nothing to do with her, he can block her on facebook. ask him, see if he'll do it. If not, send her a polite message to stay away. You don't want to end up like the Wood's and end up chasing him down the driveway with a golf ya? :)

    Answer by MintMochaMom at 5:09 PM on Dec. 2, 2009

  • he didnt have her as a friend she sent him an invite and he died it at first she wrote a message then try to add him. i didnt know you could block someone thanks :D

    Answer by whitenena at 5:49 PM on Dec. 2, 2009

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