Okay so a friend of mine had a sexual encounter with another friend. They are both female. I don't have a issue with gay people. I don't. But my issue is that her and this other girl are married. Apparently her husband is completely okay with it. He said to go ahead with it and he won't intrude in on it. So anyways now when I talk to her, she is looking up past females that have hit on her and she's basically looking for female hook-ups. To me its cheating though and I don't want to hear about it. If your going to have a sexual relationship with either male or female, its cheating. She is my best friend and we're really open to each other. I tell her everything and well obvisiously she tells me everything. I really don't know how to tell her that I don't want to hear about it anymore. This just happened a couple of nights ago and now she won't shut up about it. Any suggestions?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:30 PM on Dec. 2, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:29 AM on Dec. 3, 2009
It is cheating, to those who are monogamous. But there is such a thing as Polyamory. If no one in the relationship has an issue with what's going on, and they are consenting adults, then there's really nothing that can be done about it. It's just a personal preference; you have to decide on whether you want to remain friends with them or not if it bothers you.
Answer by NightPhoenix at 1:38 AM on Dec. 3, 2009
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