I'm married and we aren't friends anymore because it was too tempting at the time. Its been 2 years now and I miss her to the core. Not sexually, but the way you'd miss the best friend you've ever had. She was a sister to me. I have had maybe 3 friendships like this in my life and I fear I'll never get that again. Some friends are irreplaceable. How do I get over this?
PS...this isn't about attraction or desire for her. I'm NOW happy in my marriage and wouldn't dream of anything going wrong with it.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:37 AM on Dec. 4, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by samurai_chica at 9:43 AM on Dec. 4, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 9:43 AM on Dec. 4, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 9:47 AM on Dec. 4, 2009
I agree OP, having friends is quite a good thing. Girlfriends are a LIFESAVER! And Husbands need their guy friends too! If you think y'all can be just friends with no attraction, then i would go for it. It's not like this person is trying to ruin your marriage, you made a mistake & kissed her, at least that's just as far as it went. Does your husband know what happened, & if he does, is he OK with it? I would just try to make contact, let her know you're not interested in anything beyond a friendly friendship & see if she would like to be friends again. I don't think there is anything wrong with that. Good luck!
Answer by samurai_chica at 9:57 AM on Dec. 4, 2009
Answer by charlotsomtimes at 9:58 AM on Dec. 4, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:12 AM on Dec. 4, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 7:52 PM on Dec. 4, 2009