Okay here we go...so my husband has this ex he was with for two years before he met me she has been a nightmare from day one alway telling me that he is cheating on me with her but every time she tells me when he is doing this the times do not match because he is with me so I know she is lying well anyway wen we got married she even went as far as to say that she was having his child she has put me and him thr0ugh hell but before all of this they were great friends she saved his life he was considering committing suicide and she was there for him the reason why he say that he left her was because they argued all the time and he was never happy well anyways now after 6 months of not talking to her she calls him crying asking for help because her parents are going through a divorce and it is hurting her emotionally now he didn't even tell me that they were speaking again I had to find out through opening a text....Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:23 PM on Dec. 7, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 12:25 PM on Dec. 7, 2009
He may have thought explaining the situation would just open you up to more stress. I think he needs to cut ties with her, being open to her problems is only giving her hope that they can be together again. It may be the best thing for her as well. No one should take precedent over your peace of mind, especially not an ex and when it can be easily remedied by ignoring her attempts at contact.
Answer by Farrahann at 12:28 PM on Dec. 7, 2009
Answer by MamaChamp at 12:28 PM on Dec. 7, 2009
Answer by Farrahann at 12:30 PM on Dec. 7, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 1:01 PM on Dec. 7, 2009
Has he explained to her how deeply committed he is to you? Has she ever apologized for all the lies she told you about him? To you or him? If she wants him as a friend that's the least she could do. I agree with Mamachamp on counseling a women alone. Giving someone comfort can be misconstrued.
Answer by Farrahann at 1:11 PM on Dec. 7, 2009
Answer by suzyb1980 at 1:34 PM on Dec. 7, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 2:05 PM on Dec. 7, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 7:47 PM on Dec. 7, 2009