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idiot gawwwd!

i have joint custody with a jerk, and his choice's have and will always be poor, when it comes to our kid and who he brings around our son.. BF is very difficult to talk with , and i'm not crazy about everything he does as a hobbie or his redneck buddies. The only way i've been able to see what hussy and redneck he brings around our child is to check his myspace & facebook page twice a month without his knowledge. Well face book is difficult cause you have to be-friend him, well i'm not going to take the time to make up a profile, just to "keep tabs"....why am i doing this? why cant i just let it go and not even "look" at his "profiles"?


Asked by Anonymous at 4:48 PM on Dec. 7, 2009 in Just for Fun

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Answers (8)
  • What good does "keeping tabs on him" do. Nothing you can do about his girlfriend and friends. His girlfriend can't be all that bad. He picked you and men tend to pick the same kind of women.

    Worry about who you bring around your child, your sex life, your habits, and your hobbies. Spying on his dad shouldn't be a hobby he knows about.

    Answer by Gailll at 5:23 PM on Dec. 7, 2009

  • and his choice's have and will always be poor... unfortunatly.. you made a poor choice getting preggers by him. i dont understand why so many people complain about their ex's SO much.. you dated him, you had his baby. now suddenly hes a loser?

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:50 PM on Dec. 7, 2009

  • and you ms.4:50pm took the time to be ignorant and ASSume you know this womans life B4 Divorce. There are many woman who leave ABUSIVE situations, for themselves and thier children. Get off your high horse! People change, and its not always fro the better.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:56 PM on Dec. 7, 2009

  • sure sure.. but not 50% of these women came from abusive relationships. so keep making excuses for your mistakes...

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:03 PM on Dec. 7, 2009

  • I have to agree with anon :50. Although we do not know this woman's life she did know him prior to getting pregnant... he made good enough choices to date him, sleep with him, and keep his baby. And as far as being abusive.... again she dated him, slept with him, and kept the baby... if he was abusive Im sure it started before all that. Unless she was raped on the first date.

    deed is done.... deal.

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:09 PM on Dec. 7, 2009

  • way to support other woman! whoo hoo you guys rock (Sarcasm)



    Answer by EarthHippy at 5:15 PM on Dec. 7, 2009

  • i do not have to man bash to support other women...
    it disgusts me to constantly see "sperm donor" "baby daddy" etc.. what kind of society have we become that we allow women to get pregnant by men that obviously do not love them enough to stick around? What kind of society have we become that the man is always made to be the bad guy? Do women have NO responsibility in birth control? Do they get no blame for picking men and being too EASY?

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:26 PM on Dec. 7, 2009

  • there are ALOTT of woman and MEN who divorce/separate because the person they are with changed over time. Making bad $$ choices, stressed out at work and start drinking heavy, start gambling, have affairs, become depressed and cant support their family, maybe they get into a heated argument and SHE or HE hit there SO 1 time and it was enough to leave for the child/children's welfare...its everywhere, there are abusive WOMAN too, there are support groups 4 men too. Its not that uncommon.( reality check)  this person did post about guessing what he was like b4 baby, and after baby, she asked for help, a way to relax, and someone to understand.  Everyone changes, sometimes for the better and sometimes things go bad down the line.


    Answer by Anonymous at 5:35 PM on Dec. 7, 2009